In the memory of My Brother Surender Bahadur Singh
It has been more than a month now that my brother passed away, leaving us behind at an early age of 42 and today is his birthday 29th Dec.We cannot forget his loving and smiling face ever. He was the one who loved to bring a smile on others face,He was an obedient son of his parents and a very caring brother of three sisters. A husband of a beautiful wife and a very loving and caring father of two small children. He left us all on 23rd Nov 2016 after a fight with disease Gliblastoma. With tearful eyes we watched him passing away,we could not make him stay. Even money ,Prayer and wishes of near and dear ones could not buy his life. His golden heart stopped beating.God broke our hearts which once again proves that he only takes the best one First.
if I talk about Family Life, he was a very good son.I rarely seen my brother siting in front of my father it was his respect towards him. He understood his responsibilities at an early age.For sisters,From education to our marriages He did everything. He was a Guardian,friend, guide all in one. From childhood to adult we approached him for every little thing. He was always there for us. Infact after our marriage not a single week passed without having a good telephonic conversation with him.As I am the youngest, i always benefited the most. He loved all of us a lot, now we feel we did very little for him. He was perfect in all his relations.
In professional life he was very ambitious and creative.In short span of time, he started degree colleges and CBSE board school in village. I still remember someone asked him why you are opening English medium school in village and investing so much there, it will not work. He replied “I will give all the facilities similar to city in village so that people will not go to city for good education”. And in first year 450 students took admission.
Today he is no more with us. It’s very hard to accept. He will never know how much he’s missed. He will never know that our father who never showed his love to him, cries for him every day. he will never know that how his wife hide her tears and try to show herself strong in front of kids and others. He will never know that how much we all miss him.
You are the lovely brother i have adored you since i was small. I knew i could count on you, no matter what life sends to me. You always had time to listen to me and your actions always showed how much you cared. Love you and miss you a lot dear brother. These words cannot express the feelings which we are having for you at the moment. Only we can feel what we have lost. I pray to the almighty god, May your soul rest in peace.